I say this sometimes.
We're doing a blog battle at work, and so I figured I would participate. It's also a handy excuse to blog again, since I have a couple of topics that I have been meaning to write on anyway.
A lot of my coworkers have looked at the phrase from a personal responsibility way, so I won't go down that road.
I'm going to look at it from the outside.
When someone tells me that they don't have time to do something, I try to figure out what they mean by it. It usually breaks down into one or more of the following:
- "I want to do it, but I can't do it right now, or in the time frame you have given me."
- "I don't want to do it, but I can't think of a good reason beyond some work I could do now."
- "I don't really like you, and this is a polite way of saying so."
If they can't do it in the time frame I asked, maybe I can loosen up my schedule. Obviously, this sometimes can't happen (I can't affect when a client or customer needs something by past a certain point). Alternatively, I sometimes can help take something else off of their plate so they can do something for me.
If they don't want to do it or they don't like me, I generally try to find someone else. There's generally no reason at all to try to force someone into it. Well, unless it's their job...but that's probably the subject of another post.
